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Mornngs
This is all helpful! Thanks for all the comments
Kim Clement
Re: MORNINGS!
I'm a morning person -- that actually ends up being a liability to my morning routine, because I'm trying to get *my* stuff done and don't want to abandon it once the kids get up. I'm also currently working on getting our morning have-to-get-it-done stuff done more quickly -- it takes us 2 hours to get everyone up, dressed, groomed, fed, and beds made (not necessarily in that order). Seems to take 2 hours regardless of whether we have cold cereal or bacon, eggs, and toast.
So, I generally wake up between 5:30 and 6. I'll have my personal scripture study/journal time and take a look at anything I have planned for the day, just in case I want to print anything up or get any materials together or pack up any bags. I'll tidy up if I fell asleep before I could do it the previous night.
I try to have my kids up at 7. We have breakfast, clean up the kitchen, and do the regular morning stuff -- brush teeth, get dressed, put pjs away under pillows, make beds, comb hair, tidy up stuff upstairs we might have missed last night (like laundry or books/toys that made their way up into the room... we have three kids in a teeny bedroom right now, so we really try to keep it uncluttered). Then we start our kidschool time... I'm not sure if you wanted to hear about that too, or just the morning routine leading up to it, so I'll just go ahead, and you can skip it if it's not what you're asking about...
We start out with some singing. Usually an action song (or three) because my toddler loves them, and then a church children's song. We have a prayer and then a scripture lesson. I have a kind of a schedule for this -- on Mondays, we do a scripture story from the LDS scripture stories books (we're doing NT this year); Tues, Wed, and Thurs we do a lesson from the church primary manual for each of my kids (right now it's Sunbeams, CTR A and CTR B); on Friday, we do a lesson from the weekly sharing time theme. We also read/work on memorizing the scripture for the monthly and weekly themes each day, in theory anyway -- I haven't made it that far with my organization since we moved.
After the scripture lesson, we read poetry -- I use the Ambleside Online curriculum as a guide (for other things as well), and try to divide the days between poetry geared at each of my kids. We'll talk about the poem, of course, and I might make a point of marking the poem if it's one I want to add to my school book or memorize.
Following the poetry, we read something related to the history we're studying that year. We're doing medieval history this year, and currently we're reading about King Arthur. I just received Hillyer's "Children's History of the World" as well as a Canadian history book, so we'll be working those in as well. That's all that we do regularly like that -- depending on what kind of cooperation I get from my toddler and how much history reading we do, this part will take 30 mins to an hour.
Then, it's free time. The kids have bins with their binders and books and such in them, and we have bins with school-y material/games/activities too. They often want to work on a math lesson (we're using Making Math Meaningful) or play games. I'll usually start off this time being move involved with what they want to do, and then phase myself out and work on something of my own. I'm trying to use this time to inspire a few things, like French, music, and writing. Those are all things that I enjoy or am interested in learning more about, so I'll start doing it and the kids might join in. Or I might have an art project planned, or a science thing.
In the summer, we usually just do the reading part, and then we'll go outside and enjoy the nice weather. Then after lunch, my older two are usually happy to settle down on the couch and read or write or draw or work on a lesson of some kind with me.
Re: MORNINGS!
Okay, I'll add my two cents, for what it's worth=). I have three Core phasers, so keep that in mind.
Mornings...we are working on this very thing. This past year has been a preg year and dd is now 3 1/2 mos, so hopefully we can get some routine re-established. I am trying (after a yr of sleeping in--DH is a gem) to get up around 6 and either walk on our land, lift free weights, or do some yoga. Last week I did and it was such a difference for me in my coping abilities which have been pretty shot with this last pregnancy. (And then we ran into Mr. Flu, which thru us all off again--ain't life grand.)
Then, once the exercise has my mind awake, I spend some time in my Core (BTW, DH has given me the gift of the hr between 6 and 7 am so I can get back on track mentally, emotionally, and physically.) My children get up EARLY. Before 6, usually.
We eat breakfast, feed baby, send DH off to work and (Hopefully) clean up from breakfast. Afterwards, we get dressed, and the kids play while I continue with some housework. Next baby feeding (LOL) we recite articles of faith that we're working on, sing some songs, read our core, and read stories. We are reading from Bennett's Virtues for Young People, as well. By ten ,everyone's hungry and we break for some fruit or veggies to hold us over til lunch, which lately is around 11...and then more cleanup...honestly, how does one ever get any house work done???
I'm looking for some sort of picture chart for ds and dd for things like teeth brushing, getting dressed, beds, ect. Would love ideas there! And to hear more morning routines, as I am still looking for more ideas for a smoother morning.
Re: MORNINGS!
I confess that I tend to stay up late (after the kids are in bed) and therefore do not get up early in the morning. Every now and then I attempt waking early, but I end up asleep at 2pm. I also have issues with low blood sugar, so I have to eat breakfast prior to showering and dressing. Therefore I allow the kids to eat breakfast in their bed clothes as well. (I prefer to only have one set of dirty clothes thrown in the wash rather than them having to change twice anyway.) I also have a baby who stays up late and wakes in the night. I have been pregnant or nursing for the past 8.5 years. I feel tired and I want to rest. (Ever since baby number four I've believed in co-sleeping for the very reason that I wanted to sleep.) I have decided that everything has its time and season. For now it is my baby season. Some day I will not have babies and then I can go to bed at a decent hour and wake at dawn. For now- I want sleep.
After breakfast I shower. After that (whatever time it is) we do the devotional and I'm still working on the rest. I am not a schedule person. Routine is what I can do right now.
Christine
Re: MORNINGS!
I'm in the process of getting everyone up a half hour earlier each week. We're at 7 a.m. today. Next week it's 6:30. There we'll stop, to have devotional with my dh and two scholars before Seminary class. We have breakfast and household chores. I read from my core classic. Then we start school with devotional: song, prayer, pledge, scripture memory verse, more work on the song we're memorizing, followed by schoolwork.
I'm planning to add a few things to our school this year, along with the read-alouds we did last year. A weather chart, calendar, handwriting, multiplication songs... these are all things that one or another of my children really needs this year. I plan to have a mid-morning snack because of getting up three hours earlier than last year, with lunch still at 12:30 and gym class right before lunch--or maybe before or after the snack, if the natives get restless. I'm still not planning to do any formal Mom School or Kidschool in the afternoon; my two scholars and my transition to scholar child will have work to do in the afternoon. The rest will have free time or naps or exercise or work with Mom around the house.
God bless your efforts! Last year we tried to get up for devotional before Seminary, and I got morning sick (ha ha). Now the current model of cuteness is three and a half months old; we should be free of morning sickness for this school year, anyway.
crash and burn
I have to tell you that my morning routine mentioned in the previous post went well for about one month. Then crash and burn--I went into treatment for post-partum depression made considerably worse by not enough sleep. I dropped just about everything except children's immediate needs and my personal core classic study. My children did laundry, dishes, many of the meals and a lot of diaper changes. My 15yodd did well in two college courses and a couple CLEP tests that year. My 16yo did some schoolwork but not nearly enough; he's finally getting a move on now that he's 17 and working on schoolwork under closer supervision from his dad. (Last year Daddy spent his spare time helping me so I could rest.) My other children progressed, as children do, getting very good at housework and childcare and also learning to read (my 7yodd and 11yodd both started reading independently that year without much help from me, and my 13yods started reading novels for fun after several years of being able to read but not wanting to read). My 3yo became very independent, mainly because she decided if she wanted something done, she'd have to do it herself. She still does not talk well at 4yo, but she can pour her own milk from a two-quart pitcher and sometimes from a gallon pitcher. She gets out what she needs, tries to clean up messes, and shrieks when her little brother (now 17m) tries to help.
So! Having a fabulous morning routine is not worth ruining relationships or making yourself ill. Put it in perspective and have faith that it will work out. Keep yourself well-rested and do your best to inspire while calling on children to do their parts in making your home a good place to be.
This year our circumstances are different, and so our routine changes, too.